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Sunday, August 5, 2012 am 

Christians and Tolerance

This past week has seen some interesting events in America, as people stood up for the right of individuals to express their moral convictions, especially their views on “same-sex marriage”.  While the events that occurred are certainly not an end all to the debate, there was good (and bad) discussion on the subject of tolerance in the Bible.  With that in mind, I think it to be productive to take a few moments to examine and discuss what the Bible says about the subject of tolerance.

NOTE: This lesson is not about homosexuality, nor about same-sex marriage.  You know where I stand on that.  I can summarize it with 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, “Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God.  And such were some of you. But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God.  The verse clearly condemns homosexuality (and the verse describes BOTH partners in a homosexual relationship) and even more it indicates that you can repent of such behavior and be forgiven. 

This lesson is about tolerance in the life of a Christian.  It would apply to this subject and many others, including our attitudes toward one another as brethren in doctrinal matters where we disagree.   We need to understand the subject of tolerance from a Biblical standpoint, and so that will be our study this morning.  We will only introduce the subject, as much more could be said.

 I.                    What is tolerance?

a.        Defined – “a fair, objective, and permissive attitude toward those whose opinions, practices, race, religion, nationality, etc., differ from one’s own.  Freedom from bigotry.”  (www.dictionary.com)
Bigotry is defined as, “stubborn and complete intolerance of any creed, belief, or opinion that differs from one’s own.” (ibid).

                                                   i.      When you see definitions like this, it is obvious that we need to draw lines as to what we tolerate and what we do not.   Most, if not all of us, have things that we simply cannot and will not tolerate (i.e. how many will tolerate a child molester or a mass murderer?).  The challenge, as Christians, is where do we draw that line? 

                                                  ii.      And how do we deal with those who practice things that we find to be wrong according to God’s word?  That is really the debate that we are engaged in right now!

b.       As you study the Bible you find that there is a difference between one who is a sinner and the sins he is guilty of.

                                                   i.      WE sometimes hear the expression, “Love the sinner, but not the sin.”  That is a true statement.  In Matt. 5:44, Jesus tells us to love our enemies. 
Rom. 12:14, 20,21 tells us to bless those who persecute you, and further to let God take care of the vengeance.

                                                  ii.      Jesus, while upon this earth, dealt with many this way and it is an example we need to follow.
When the rich young ruler came to Jesus, He did NOT accept his sinful greed.  In fact, He told him he needed to repent or he would be lost.  Yet Mark 10:21 says, “Jesus, looking at him, loved him, and said to him….”
When the adulterous woman was brought to Jesus (John 8:1-11), while He forgave her, there is NO indication that He tolerated her sinful behavior.  In fact, He told her, “go and sin no more.”

In these, and other examples, you find Jesus loving the sinner, but NOT the sins he is guilty of.  You do NOT find Jesus, in the slightest bit, APPROVING of their sinful behavior.

                                                iii.      Our understanding of tolerance has to keep these things in mind!

c.        The Bible never uses the word tolerance, but we can see the principle both positively and negatively in scripture.  We will notice some examples of this as our lesson progresses.

 

 II.                  We CANNOT tolerate sin! 

a.        The Bible never teaches us to tolerate sinful conduct!  In fact, we must NOT tolerate sin!

b.       Romans 6:23 says, “For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.  Sin leads to death and we are RUN away from it!  We are to resist the devil and his minions.

c.        Psalm 1:1 begins by saying “Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor stands in the path of sinners, nor sits in the seat of the scornful…”

d.       IN Gal. 2:4-5 we find brethren that attempted to teach false doctrine, and Paul said, “to whom we did not yield even for an hour, that the truth of the gospel might continue in you.”  While dealing with false teachers and their doctrines, the point is that they did not tolerate ungodliness at all.

e.       1 Tim. 6:3-5, Paul told Timothy if one did not “consent to wholesome words, even the words of our Lord Jesus Christ and to the doctrine which accords with godliness…”, after describing his ungodly demeanor,  he said, “From such withdraw yourself.”

f.         Ephesians 5:3-11 (READ) culminates with this saying, “And have no fellowship with unfruitful works of darkness, but rather expose them.”

g.        This HAS to be at the foundation of our conduct.

h.       Rev. 2:20-23 finds a church that was corrupt in that it allowed false doctrine and immorality in its midst.  In essence they were told they should not TOLERATE such.

i.         1 Cor. 5:4-7 speaks of why a church cannot tolerate such – it will corrupt the body!

j.         When we stand before God in judgment, he will NOT tolerate unrepentant sin!   Neither should we.

 III.                Realize that not everyone is going to agree with you or treat you in a godly manner.

a.        Regardless of our convictions against sin, we live in a world and society that is very ungodly.  By far, the largest percentage of our population does not have clear and strong moral convictions that they are willing to stand up and fight for.  In recent times, the number of Americans that deny or question the existence of God is on the increase.
1 John 5:19 says, “We know that we are of God, and the whole world lies under the sway of the wicked one.   1 John 4:5 says, “They are of the world.  Therefore they speak as of the world, and the world hears them.

b.       When you stand for your convictions you will get people upset. 
Jesus was crucified because he withstood corrupt leadership.
Paul was resisted continually, by both Jews and Gentiles.  When his “morality” changed the climate of Ephesus, the people reacted.  Acts 19 records Paul’s 2 years there.  While there, he converted many to the point that many burned their magic books.  But others, following the lead of Demetrius, the silversmith, saw their livelihood in danger (because shrines to the gods, including Diana, were produced by them), they stirred up the society in confusion and nearly started a riot.

c.        We are told in no uncertain terms that we will be rejected by the world.  2 Tim. 3:12 says that “All who desire to live godly WILL suffer persecution.” 
1 Pet. 4:1-4 speaks of living having ceased in ungodliness.  In vs. 4 it says, “In regard to these things they think it strange that you do not run with them in the same flood of dissipation, speaking evil of you…”
1 Pet. 2:12 and 3:16 both speaks of the evildoers villainizing us (speak against you as evil doers; defame you as evil doers”, etc.) because of our good conduct in Christ.

d.       Even with this, there is a sense, in which you let the world be the world.   
Matt. 15:14, Jesus said to His disciples after he “offended” them with His teachings, “Let them alone, they are blind leaders of the blind.  And if the blind leads the blind, both will fall into a ditch.”
1 Cor. 5:9-11, Paul reminds us that we have to still associate with the ungodly of this world – sexually immoral, covetous, extortioners, and idolaters.  He even observes that to avoid such, “you would need to go out of the world.
Jesus, when He prayed to the Father acknowledged how His disciples were hated by the world, and yet they were still in the world. (John 17:14-19).
We’re even told to submit to governments, regardless of their godly stand – Rom. 13:1-2, 7; 1 Pet. 2:13-17 (unless they demand that we break God’s laws – Act 5:29).  NOTE: There is no distinction made between good and bad governments.  Our only hope in the society we live in is that our constitution provides us opportunity to stand for our convictions (for the time being – may we never neglect this blessing and use it to His glory).

e.       BUT, with this we are still told to limit our exposure to the ungodliness of this world.
2 Cor. 6:14-18, “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers”, “come out from among them and be separate…”

1 Cor. 15:33 warns us, “Evil company corrupts good habits.”
James 4:4 tells us, “Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God?  Whoever therefore wants to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God.”
Again, when we do such, it leads to mockings. (cf. 1 Pet. 4:4)

 Having established when and where we need tolerance, what do we do about those that we disagree with?  There is much to say about the godly attitude we ought to possess in dealing with such.  Let us consider some practical observations in dealing with the ungodly of this world.