SUMMER TIME SINS
What Are You Doing?
It
is not uncommon to hear of the summer season as the fun season.
And in our society, that is certainly true.
With longer days and more pleasant weather, more activities are
offered within our communities and with our friends.
As
Christians, we need to continually be aware of our need to live a godly
life. Godliness is one of
the so-called “Christian graces” (2 Pet. 1:6-7) that we are to supply
within our faith. It is a
word that describes “a Godward attitude” that “does that which is
well-pleasing to Him.” (Vine’s[1]).
Vincent’s describes the word as, “worship rightly directed.”
[2]
It has to do with rendering unto God the reverence He is due, not
merely in worship, but throughout our lives.
We often describe this as “God-likeness” which implies we desire
to manifest the qualities of God (which we can) in our lives – holiness,
purity, love, decency, etc.
Ephesians 5:1 says, “Therefore be
imitators of God as dear children.”
Timothy was told, “But
reject profane and old wives fables, and exercise yourself toward
godliness. For bodily
exercise profits a little, but godliness is profitable for all things,
having promise of the life that now is and of that which is to come.”
(1 Tim. 4:6-7) It is through
“the knowledge of Him who called us by glory and virtue” that we have
been given, “all things that pertain to life and godliness.” (2 Pet.
1:3)
We
manifest godliness (or lack thereof) in the way we conduct ourselves –
what we do, where we go, who we associate with, etc.
AND that is something we need to think about during the summer
season.
Where are you going?
With some many options, do we find ourselves going places where
immoral activities are being practiced?
We have already discussed immodest clothing, but what about the
places where such is being worn?
How about the beach and public pools?
When we think about the subject of lust, it is not just about our
provoking others to lust, but avoiding such in our lives.
Paul told Timothy, “Flee
youthful lusts.” (2 Tim. 2:22)
Jesus, in Matthew 5:28 said, “But
I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already
committed adultery with her in his heart.”
If a place is filled with people who show little regard for lust,
or perhaps they are even seeking to provoke lust, should that be where
we as Christians seek to recreate ourselves?
Job said, “I have made a covenant with my eyes; Why then should I look upon a young
woman?” (Job 31:1)
What a fitting attitude for us to consider.
There are other places that Christians ought to avoid: Places where
other forms of lust are being promoted.
There are the dance halls and night clubs where the gyrating of
bodies also provokes LUST (there’s that word again!).
Much of the modern dance involves immoral movements and the
handling of a partner in such a way that it that leads to sexual
arousal. Among the works of
the flesh (Gal. 5:19-21) we read of uncleanness and lewdness.
Uncleanness is described as, “the state of moral impurity,
especially in relation to sexual sin.” (L&N, 88.261[3])
Lewdness is defined as, “behavior completely lacking in moral
restraint, usually with the implication of sexual licentiousness.” (L&N,
88.272[4])
Both of these can be descriptive of the modern dancing.
Be honest, if such conduct is prevalent at an activity, is that
where a Christian should be?
Many of these places, and others, also offer drinking.
Whether legal or not, many seek out popular parties and places
which usually serve liquor and/or drugs.
It seems to be a popular thing to “hang out with friends” and
“get drunk” or “party!” That
this happens is too frequently revealed as the news stories of
drunkenness break. Sadly, many of
our young think that drinking is “cool”.
While some argue that drinking in moderation is acceptable for
Christians (I don’t!), WHY would we want to at all, when we consider the
damage it does? The damage
it does to a society, to one’s health, to families and to your example.
There is NOT a single benefit that alcohol provides which
necessitates it or that cannot be found elsewhere.
But there is PLENTY of sinful conduct associated with drinking.
1 Pet. 4:3 says, “For we have spent enough of our past lifetime in doing the will of the
Gentiles – when we walked in lewdness, lusts, drunkenness, revelries,
drinking parties and abominable idolatries.”
At least three of these words are associated with different
levels of the consumption of alcohol.
Solomon observed, “Wine is a mocker, strong drink is a brawler, and whoever is led astray
by it is not wise.” (Prov. 20:1)
For those who want to justify social drinking I ask, is there
such a thing as being “a little drunk”?
You are either drunk or you are not!
The whole purpose of alcohol (even socially) is to relax us and
“take off the edge” or manipulate your mind (even if it is just a
little). So much more could
be said about this, but space will not permit it at this time.
But in this season of fun and frivolity, stay away from liquor!
(Prov. 23:31-35). Christians
are to stay sober (1 Thess. 5:6, Titus 2:2, 6, 12; 1 Pet. 1:13, 5:8,
etc.). You don’t need
alcohol!
Another thing to consider is the movies we go to.
The “blockbuster” movies are almost always released during the
summer season. And those
movies are not always godly.
In fact, as our standards as a society have loosened, so have movie
ratings. Hollywood is not
known for its moral virtues.
In fact, it is a contributing factor to the moral DECLINE of our
society. Friends, I am not
opposed to going to moves, but as Christians we need STANDARDS!
We DO need to be careful what we watch.
Here are some of my concerns with movies:
1) Consider how godly role models
are often portrayed as prudes or idiots.
2) Ungodly lifestyles such as
cohabitation, fornication and homosexuality are glorified.
3) Profanity is heavily utilized
in most movies.
4) Immodest clothing or nudity
are treated as normal and often used as a draw.
5) Criminal activity and
violence are often glorified, sometimes gratuitously.
As
Christians we know that such things are sinful conduct, but do we
indulge in media where such is promoted?
Continued exposure to such can lead to desensitization of such
sinful conduct. (Heb. 3:13,
1 Tim. 4:2). Prov. 6:28
says, “Can one walk on hot coals,
and his feet not be seared?” Do
we give consideration to the rating system when we choose our movies?
Do you go to R rated movies?
Do you investigate the content of a movie before you go (there
are websites, such as,
http://www.commonsensemedia.org/
or
http://www.pluggedin.com/ that will tell you
EXACLTY what is in a movie – profanity, sexual innuendo, nudity,
violence, positive and negative elements, etc.).
Where do you draw the line as to
what you will view? (2 Cor. 6:14-17, 1 John 2:15-17, Jas. 4:4).
In
this article we have discussed some things to avoid as Christians.
Please know that there are plenty of other GOOD choices that will
not compromise your faith.
Let us look for such and if we are presented with opportunity, let us
avail ourselves of such.
Have fun! But know that God
is watching (Eccl. 11:9-12:1, Heb. 4:12-13).
Think about it.
In
our next and final article, we want to discuss our associations and make
some applications as to using our summer to overcome sinful conduct and
draw closer to our Lord.
[1]
Godliness, Godly,
Vine, W. E., Merrill F. Unger and William White, Jr. Vine’s
Complete Expository Dictionary of Old and New Testament Words.
Nashville, TN: T. Nelson, 1996.
[2]
2 Peter 1:3,
Vincent, Marvin Richardson. Word Studies in the New Testament.
New York: Charles Scribner’s Sons, 1887.
[3] Louw,
Johannes P. and Eugene Albert Nida. Greek-English Lexicon of
the New Testament: Based on Semantic Domains. electronic ed.
of the 2nd edition. New York: United Bible Societies, 1996.
[4] Ibid.