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Sunday, March 8, 2015 pm

 

WHEN SILENCE IS NOT GOLDEN

     There is a common expression that says, “Silence is golden.”  The intent is to remind us we don’t need to be talking all the time.  There are times when being quiet is exactly what is needed.  Silence can prevent all sorts of trouble.  And the Bible echoes that sentiment.  James 1:19-20 says, “So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath; for the wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of God. Prov. 10:19 even says, ““In the multitude of words sin is not lacking, But he who restrains his lips is wise.” And “He who has knowledge spares his words, And a man of understanding is of a calm spirit.” (Proverbs 17:27)   More often than not, our tongues get us in trouble because we speak up when we ought to be quiet.

     BUT, there are times when we ought to speak up.  In fact, it could be there are times when if we fail to speak up that we are actually sinning.  In Psalm 39:1-3, David said, “I said, “I will guard my ways, Lest I sin with my tongue; I will restrain my mouth with a muzzle, While the wicked are before me.” I was mute with silence, I held my peace even from good; And my sorrow was stirred up. My heart was hot within me; While I was musing, the fire burned. Then I spoke with my tongue:  Jeremiah said something similar in Jer. 20:7-9 says, “O Lord, You induced me, and I was persuaded; You are stronger than I, and have prevailed. I am in derision daily; Everyone mocks me. For when I spoke, I cried out; I shouted, “Violence and plunder!” Because the word of the Lord was made to me A reproach and a derision daily. Then I said, “I will not make mention of Him, Nor speak anymore in His name.” But His word was in my heart like a burning fire Shut up in my bones; I was weary of holding it back, And I could not.

In our lesson tonight I would like to notice some times when we ought speak up.  Some times when ought not to be silent.  Let us consider that we ought not be silent when it comes to:

 I.                    Praising God

a.        The idea of praising God is to life up one’s voice in adoration, or to speak highly of one.  In the New Testament the primary Greek word, ανέω (aineō) word is almost exclusively directed toward God. 

b.       The idea of praising God today has been marketed by many so that people associate it with spectacular shows and emotionally driven services.  As a result, many are hesitant to speak out in praise to God for fear of being judged as impure in their motives.  But in scripture we find the need to praise Him.

c.        In our study of the psalms one of the lessons we are continually reminded of is our need to praise the LORD.  Recently we have noted that the term, “Hallelujah” is Hebrew for praise the Lord (cf. Psalm 13).  David and other psalmist spoke openly in praise to God.

d.       The disciples of Jesus rendered open praise in His presence – cf. Luke 19:37 we find as Jesus prepares to enter Jerusalem the disciples began to rejoice and praise God with a loud voice…

e.       Acts 2:47 in the infancy of the church we find the disciples rejoiced and sharing together, “praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to the church daily those who were being saved.

f.         Paul

g.        Heb. 13:15 – let us offer to God the sacrifice of praise, the fruit of our lips

h.       Ephesians 5:19, Colossians 3:16 – the type of singing God commands in our worship is where we open our mouths together in praise to Him.
Hebrews 2:12, “saying: “I will declare Your name to My brethren; In the midst of the assembly I will sing praise to You.”

i.         1 Peter 2:9 “But you are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, His own special people, that you may proclaim the praises of Him who called you out of darkness into His marvelous light;

j.         As we have opportunity, let us render to Him due praise.  Let it be manifested as we worship Him and at other times.

 II.                  Offering Thanks

a.        Similar to praising God, we ought to express gratitude.  As we have noted on numerous occasions, we can never be grateful enough for the grace of God.  He’s done so much for me!

b.       Continually in scripture we are called upon to thank God.
1 Thess. 5:17-18 we are told to pray without ceasing, “in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.

c.        Colossians 3:17, Eph. 5:20, again Heb. 13:15 speaks of giving thanks to His name

d.       Luke 17:15-17 – after healing 10 lepers only one returns he falls down at the feet of Jesus, giving thanks to God.  You find here gratitude and ingratitude.  We need to be like the one, even when others are not grateful. 

e.       And that is true in the society we live in as well.  We live in a time where real gratitude is lacking and it is reflected in so many areas of life.  Far too many are selfish and egotistical.  They do not appreciate what they have or what others have sacrificed for them. 

f.         Let us lead by example and not be silent when it comes to being grateful. 

g.        Consider also sometimes people need to hear thank-you.

 III.                Confessing Christ

a.        Romans 10:9-10 makes confession of Jesus Christ a condition of our salvation.  We must with our mouth confess Jesus as our Lord.  We have an example of this in Acts 8:37 of the Eunuch confessing Jesus which leads to his baptism.

b.       We often quote Matt. 10:32-33, “Therefore whoever confesses Me before men, him I will also confess before My Father who is in heaven. But whoever denies Me before men, him I will also deny before My Father who is in heaven.  We sometimes quote this verse in the steps of salvation.  It certainly applies there, but the context goes much deeper it speaks of confessing Him throughout our lives as Christians. 

c.        Sadly, not everyone is willing to make this confession.  In scripture we find examples of those unwilling.
John 9:22-23  after the healing of the blind man, his parents won’t answer direction questions - “His parents said these things because they feared the Jews, for the Jews had agreed already that if anyone confessed that He was Christ, he would be put out of the synagogue. Therefore his parents said, “He is of age; ask him.”
John 12:42-43, “Nevertheless even among the rulers many believed in Him, but because of the Pharisees they did not confess Him, lest they should be put out of the synagogue; for they loved the praise of men more than the praise of God.” (John 12:42–43, NKJV)

d.       BUT the truth is, everyone WILL confess Jesus.  Philippians 2:9-10 tells us every knee will bow and every tongue will confess.  The question is simply, WHEN?  Now or after this life when it is too late.

 IV.                Defending the Truth

a.        Many such passages call for us to defend what we believe.  

b.       Paul in Philippians 1:17 spoke of being appointed (set) for the defense of the gospel.

c.        We are reminded in Jude 3 that we are to contend for the faith.  

d.       1 Peter 3:15 calls for us to give a defense for the hope that is in us.

e.       We have recently and frequently discussed this point, so here we just want to remind ourselves that this is a way that we need to speak up from time to time.  With souls on the line, we need to defend our God, our Lord, our brethren, His church and His word, just to name a few things. 
What impression do people get about our faith from our day to day conversations?

 V.                  Admonishing our weakening brethren.

a.        As uncomfortable as it is, we have an obligation to brethren who are growing weak, indifferent and unfaithful.   We need to warn them.

b.       1 Thess. 5:14 – among the things we are exhorted to do is warn the unruly. 

c.        Galatians 6:1 tell us “Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted.

d.       James 5:19-20 concludes that letter with a similar statement, if a brother wanders from the truth we are to seek to turn him back.

e.       Matthew 18:15-17, if a brother sins (against you – KJV, NKJV), you are to go to him FIRST!

f.         One more thought is found in 2 Thess. 3:15 where we are called upon to deal with those who do not obey and to mark them.  Paul says, “Yet do not count him as an enemy, but admonish him as a brother.

g.        With a brother’s soul who ought to know better in jeopardy, we can’t afford to stay silent. 

 VI.                Upholding Brethren

a.        There are some who have no problem rebuking sinning brethren, criticizing whatever faults we find, gossiping about others and a host of times when we OUGHT to keep silent!  But some struggle with complimenting brethren when they do the right thing, encouraging them when they are frustrated or when they have stumbled and are trying to recover, being there for them as they deal with setbacks in their lives, etc.

b.       In the same text where Paul says to warn the unruly, (1 Thess. 5:14) he also says, “comfort the fainthearted, uphold the weak, be patient with all.

c.        Acts 9:26-27 finds Paul coming to Jerusalem and seeking to join the brethren there.  Because of his past (as a persecutor of Christians) they are hesitant.  But Barnabas, who is called “the son of Encouragement” stands up for him (Acts 9:26-27).

d.       1 John 3:16-18,  We know love by this, that He laid down His life for us; and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren. But whoever has the world’s goods, and sees his brother in need and closes his heart against him, how does the love of God abide in him? Little children, let us not love with word or with tongue, but in deed and truth. My little children, let us not love in word or in tongue, but in deed and in truth.”  How much are we willing to do for our brethren?

e.       Will we speak up for them?

 

And thus we can see, there is a time when what we need to do is speak up.  There is time when we should NOT be silent.   May we with wisdom use our tongues for good, both in what we don’t say AND in what we DO say.  Think about it.